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  1. #1
    Cole Kutz Guest

    Default Christy Deserves Better!

    One would think that there has to be enough intelligence and non-pack
    mentality to recognise that churlish details regarding Christy can be
    read by thousands, and not just able to be read by *select* members of
    this group.

    In regard to this matter I would rather not call this group
    insensitive & selfish. Instead I would preferably chose to consider
    that members of this group are somewhat ignorant by not recognising
    that some people do not want reminding of what they went through when
    they lost a loved one in a similar way as Christy.

    Clearly Allen was not thinking straight when he agreed to allow Peter
    Lucas to publish full details.

    But to my mind it takes someone in this group to step up to the plate
    and suggest ways to shied this innocent victim from people who are
    only interested in the macabre.




  2. #2
    sf Guest

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    On Sat, 27 Dec 2008 08:12:00 -0800 (PST), Cole Kutz
    <[email protected]> wrote:

    >One would think that there has to be enough intelligence and non-pack
    >mentality to recognise that churlish details regarding Christy can be
    >read by thousands, and not just able to be read by *select* members of
    >this group.


    Hand me a hankie. <sniffle>
    >
    >In regard to this matter I would rather not call this group
    >insensitive & selfish. Instead I would preferably chose to consider
    >that members of this group are somewhat ignorant by not recognising
    >that some people do not want reminding of what they went through when
    >they lost a loved one in a similar way as Christy.
    >

    People do what they need to do to get through it. I've noticed that
    no regular rfc poster who has actually been through the death of a
    spouse or child has spoken against this practice. It's only people
    like you, Peter's stalkers, who post complaints.

    >Clearly Allen was not thinking straight when he agreed to allow Peter
    >Lucas to publish full details.


    I'm glad he did. Peter could have published a daily link to
    CaringBridge (just like the candle site is published daily) but we
    often get his messages here before CaringBridge is updated. Anyone
    *normal* who doesn't want to read about Christy knows they can either
    skip the thread or filter the header which is easy to do - unlike
    staying away from the likes of you who morph and return.
    >
    >But to my mind it takes someone in this group to step up to the plate
    >and suggest ways to shied this innocent victim from people who are
    >only interested in the macabre.
    >

    You're despicable and vile. If you were *that* sensitive to the
    situation... you wouldn't be here in the first place.

    Just in case you haven't figured it out, I'll spell it out for you.
    Your juvenal antics have done two things:
    1. You've managed to turn someone many people here find abrasive
    enough to permanently filter (without any help from you, asshole) into
    a tragic hero.
    2. You've also managed to show *you're* so focused on stalking that
    you can't even let someone go through the real life death of his wife
    (who is well loved here) without turning it into a stalker's
    playground.

    Grow up.


    --
    I never worry about diets. The only carrots that
    interest me are the number of carats in a diamond.

    Mae West

  3. #3
    Dimitri Guest

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    "Cole Kutz" <[email protected]> wrote in message
    news:[email protected]..
    > One would think that there has to be enough intelligence and non-pack
    > mentality to recognise that churlish details regarding Christy can be
    > read by thousands, and not just able to be read by *select* members of
    > this group.



    In general people deal with impending doom, sadness, and overall impotence
    in different ways. In addition people seek emotional support and catharsis
    in differently.

    Next time you are in Alan's shoes be sure not to let anyone know.

    Dimitri


  4. #4
    Richard Burns Guest

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    On Dec 28, 10:20*am, "Dimitri" <Dimitr...@prodigy.net> wrote:
    > "Cole Kutz" <ruthsboyfri...@gmail.com> wrote in message
    >
    > news:[email protected]..
    >
    > > One would think that there has to be enough intelligence and non-pack
    > > mentality to recognise that churlish details regarding Christy can be
    > > read by thousands, and not just able to be read by *select* members of
    > > this group.

    >
    > In general people deal with impending doom, sadness, and overall impotence
    > in different ways. *In addition people seek emotional support and catharsis
    > in differently.
    >
    > Next time you are in Alan's shoes be sure not to let anyone know.
    >


    Having been in his shoes when my son was hit by a drunk driver I find
    the details offensive.
    A simple update like Christy is not doing well with the Caringbridge
    site would be enough.

    HTH

    Dick


  5. #5
    Janet Bostwick Guest

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    Richard Burns wrote:
    > On Dec 28, 10:20 am, "Dimitri" <Dimitr...@prodigy.net> wrote:
    >> "Cole Kutz" <ruthsboyfri...@gmail.com> wrote in message
    >>
    >> news:[email protected]..
    >>
    >>> One would think that there has to be enough intelligence and
    >>> non-pack mentality to recognise that churlish details regarding
    >>> Christy can be read by thousands, and not just able to be read by
    >>> *select* members of this group.

    >>
    >> In general people deal with impending doom, sadness, and overall
    >> impotence in different ways. In addition people seek emotional
    >> support and catharsis in differently.
    >>
    >> Next time you are in Alan's shoes be sure not to let anyone know.
    >>

    >
    > Having been in his shoes when my son was hit by a drunk driver I find
    > the details offensive.
    > A simple update like Christy is not doing well with the Caringbridge
    > site would be enough.
    >
    > HTH
    >
    > Dick

    Mommy, Mommy, they made me read it!!!
    Janet



  6. #6
    Virginia Tadrzynski Guest

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    Re: sf...........Yo, cube steak, or whatever you call yourself.....take Pat,
    boris and all your other nom de plumes or friends and/or acquaintances and
    operate your kill file button if you don't want to read any of Peter's
    posts......sf, you go girl. If posting comments from Caring Bridge makes
    Peter feel better that he is actually doing something for Christie (whether
    or not it helps her or not, it gives him an outlet). If you don't want to
    read his posts, chopped liver, just ignore them. There are many posts on
    rfc I routinely ignore, so why can't you. Using Peter's posts about his
    feelings for what is going on half a world away to attack him is what sf
    called 'vile' and I am inclined to agree with her.

    Whether you liked Christie or not, she contributed to this newsgroup, she
    made an impact. I just read a quote from Edna St. Vincent Millay that went
    like this:
    "My candle burns at both ends; It will not last the night; But, ah, my foes,
    and, oh, my friends- It gives a lovely light!" I think that pretty much sums
    up Christie....her candle may have burned at both ends, but what a light she
    made in the life of others. If Peter is touched by that light, more power
    to him.....you can only hope to make such an impression........

    -ginny

    On Topic: Food - December 27th is National Fruitcake Day. Somehow I think
    Christie's quirky personality would find the absurd humor in the fact that
    her last remaining day on earth may be National Fruitcake Day (smile).
    Think of her in her finer moments, what made you smile and some of the
    sillier times that made you giggle. That is the way we all should be
    remembered.



  7. #7
    Richard Burns Guest

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    On Dec 28, 12:57*pm, "Virginia Tadrzynski" <ta...@enter.net> wrote:
    snip
    *
    If Peter is touched by that light, more power
    > to him.....you can only hope to make such an impression........


    What utter rubbish.
    The only light that has touched Lucas is the light illuminating the
    path for a coward to retreat from a battle.

  8. #8
    PeterLucas Guest

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    "Virginia Tadrzynski" <[email protected]> wrote in
    news:4956dd12$0$1551$[email protected]:


    >
    > Whether you liked Christie or not, she contributed to this newsgroup,
    > she made an impact. I just read a quote from Edna St. Vincent Millay
    > that went like this:
    > "My candle burns at both ends; It will not last the night; But, ah, my
    > foes, and, oh, my friends- It gives a lovely light!" I think that
    > pretty much sums up Christie....her candle may have burned at both
    > ends, but what a light she made in the life of others. If Peter is
    > touched by that light, more power to him.....you can only hope to make
    > such an impression........




    My SO (Ruth) and I were both touched by Christy's 'light'. She sent
    consoling emails after Ruth's much loved older sister (and my SIL)
    passed away after an 8 year battle with cancer, and then on the 1st
    anniversary of her passing.



    >
    > -ginny
    >
    > On Topic: Food - December 27th is National Fruitcake Day. Somehow I
    > think Christie's quirky personality would find the absurd humor in the
    > fact that her last remaining day on earth may be National Fruitcake
    > Day (smile).




    Yes, I think she'd get a real kick out of that :-)


    --
    Peter Lucas
    Brisbane
    Australia

    "Life is not like a box of chocolates... it's more like a jar of
    jalapenos. What you do today... might burn your ass tomorrow."

  9. #9
    Virginia Tadrzynski Guest

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    "Richard Burns" <[email protected]> wrote in message
    news:[email protected]...
    On Dec 28, 12:57 pm, "Virginia Tadrzynski" <ta...@enter.net> wrote:
    snip

    If Peter is touched by that light, more power
    > to him.....you can only hope to make such an impression........


    What utter rubbish.
    The only light that has touched Lucas is the light illuminating the
    path for a coward to retreat from a battle.


    Thank you for pointing out 'utter rubbish'....how dare we console one
    another when we could be flaming Peter Lucas.
    There is something you can do, Dick,old man.........an anatomical and
    biological impossibility to yourself.
    -ginny



  10. #10
    Wayne Boatwright Guest

    Default Re: Christy Deserves Better!

    On Sat 27 Dec 2008 08:26:03p, Virginia Tadrzynski told us...

    >
    > "Richard Burns" <[email protected]> wrote in message
    > news:[email protected]...
    > On Dec 28, 12:57 pm, "Virginia Tadrzynski" <ta...@enter.net> wrote:
    > snip
    >
    > If Peter is touched by that light, more power
    >> to him.....you can only hope to make such an impression........

    >
    > What utter rubbish.
    > The only light that has touched Lucas is the light illuminating the
    > path for a coward to retreat from a battle.
    >
    >
    > Thank you for pointing out 'utter rubbish'....how dare we console one
    > another when we could be flaming Peter Lucas.
    > There is something you can do, Dick,old man.........an anatomical and
    > biological impossibility to yourself.
    > -ginny


    Not necessarily, Ginny. You don't know Dick! :-)



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  11. #11
    Default User Guest

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    sf wrote:

    > Grow up.


    How about you quit rising to the bait?



    Brian

    --
    If televison's a babysitter, the Internet is a drunk librarian who
    won't shut up.
    -- Dorothy Gambrell (http://catandgirl.com)

  12. #12
    Default User Guest

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    Virginia Tadrzynski wrote:


    > What utter rubbish.


    WHY? Why are you giving these trolls the attention they crave?




    Brian

    --
    If televison's a babysitter, the Internet is a drunk librarian who
    won't shut up.
    -- Dorothy Gambrell (http://catandgirl.com)

  13. #13
    Giusi Guest

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    "Default User" ha scritto nel messaggio
    > Virginia Tadrzynski wrote:
    >> What utter rubbish.

    >
    > WHY? Why are you giving these trolls the attention they crave?
    > Brian
    >

    Why do you get to decide who is a troll, who gets answered and who does not?
    It just makes the list longer when you chide a grown up person capable of
    making up her own mind.



  14. #14
    PeterLucas Guest

    Default Re: Christy Deserves Better!

    "Giusi" <[email protected]> wrote in
    news:[email protected]:

    > "Default User" ha scritto nel messaggio
    >> Virginia Tadrzynski wrote:
    >>> What utter rubbish.

    >>
    >> WHY? Why are you giving these trolls the attention they crave?
    >> Brian
    >>

    > Why do you get to decide who is a troll, who gets answered and who
    > does not? It just makes the list longer when you chide a grown up
    > person capable of making up her own mind.
    >
    >




    Because, quite obviously, 'Default User' is a *lot* more internet savvy
    than most in here.... including you.

    People *were* replying to trolls/stalkers. This particular troll/stalker
    is one pathetic person....... bevan john kirkland.


    From: Cole Kutz <[email protected]>
    NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.14

    From: Richard Burns <[email protected]>
    NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.26

    From: Harry Balzac <[email protected]>
    NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.14

    From: "Lucas (Coward)" <[email protected]>
    NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.10

    From: Peter Lucas <[email protected]>
    NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.18

    From: Fugly Ruth <[email protected]>
    NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.16

    From: David Shaw <[email protected]>
    NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.24




    --
    Peter Lucas
    Brisbane
    Australia

    You will travel through the valley of rejection;
    you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your
    home,
    though it will not be where you left it.

  15. #15
    Default User Guest

    Default Re: Christy Deserves Better!

    Giusi wrote:

    > "Default User" ha scritto nel messaggio
    > > Virginia Tadrzynski wrote:
    > > > What utter rubbish.

    > >
    > > WHY? Why are you giving these trolls the attention they crave?
    > > Brian
    > >

    > Why do you get to decide who is a troll,


    Because I have half a brain? If people keep replying to the Lucas
    stalker-trolls, they will keep it up. It's pretty simple.




    Brian

    --
    If televison's a babysitter, the Internet is a drunk librarian who
    won't shut up.
    -- Dorothy Gambrell (http://catandgirl.com)

  16. #16
    Ophelia Guest

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    Default User wrote:
    > Giusi wrote:
    >
    >> "Default User" ha scritto nel messaggio
    >>> Virginia Tadrzynski wrote:
    >>>> What utter rubbish.
    >>>
    >>> WHY? Why are you giving these trolls the attention they crave?
    >>> Brian
    >>>

    >> Why do you get to decide who is a troll,

    >
    > Because I have half a brain? If people keep replying to the Lucas
    > stalker-trolls, they will keep it up. It's pretty simple.


    I am not sure where this is going, but I and most other people here, have
    whole brains.



  17. #17
    sf Guest

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    On 28 Dec 2008 06:49:55 GMT, "Default User" <[email protected]>
    wrote:

    >sf wrote:
    >
    >> Grow up.

    >
    >How about you quit rising to the bait?
    >

    What about it?


    --
    I never worry about diets. The only carrots that
    interest me are the number of carats in a diamond.

    Mae West

  18. #18
    Flo Guest

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    "PeterLucas" <[email protected]> wrote in message
    news:[email protected] 25...
    > "Giusi" <[email protected]> wrote in
    > news:[email protected]:
    >
    >> "Default User" ha scritto nel messaggio
    >>> Virginia Tadrzynski wrote:
    >>>> What utter rubbish.
    >>>
    >>> WHY? Why are you giving these trolls the attention they crave?
    >>> Brian
    >>>

    >> Why do you get to decide who is a troll, who gets answered and who
    >> does not? It just makes the list longer when you chide a grown up
    >> person capable of making up her own mind.
    >>
    >>

    >
    >
    >
    > Because, quite obviously, 'Default User' is a *lot* more internet savvy
    > than most in here.... including you.
    >
    > People *were* replying to trolls/stalkers. This particular troll/stalker
    > is one pathetic person....... bevan john kirkland.
    >
    >
    > From: Cole Kutz <[email protected]>
    > NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.14
    >
    > From: Richard Burns <[email protected]>
    > NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.26
    >
    > From: Harry Balzac <[email protected]>
    > NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.14
    >
    > From: "Lucas (Coward)" <[email protected]>
    > NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.10
    >
    > From: Peter Lucas <cowardpeterlucas@gmail.com>
    > NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.18
    >
    > From: Fugly Ruth <[email protected]>
    > NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.16
    >
    > From: David Shaw <[email protected]>
    > NNTP-Posting-Host: 38.108.179.24
    >


    As all those NNTP-Posting-Hosts originate from California this bevan
    kirkland must be in USA.
    Not don't bother to thank me for drawing this to your attention Peter.

    Florence Matchett



  19. #19
    Dan Goodman Guest

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    Flo wrote:

    > As all those NNTP-Posting-Hosts originate from California this bevan
    > kirkland must be in USA. Not don't bother to thank me for drawing
    > this to your attention Peter.


    There are ways to apparently post from countries other than the one
    you're in.

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  20. #20
    Default User Guest

    Default Re: Christy Deserves Better!

    Ophelia wrote:

    > Default User wrote:


    > > Because I have half a brain? If people keep replying to the Lucas
    > > stalker-trolls, they will keep it up. It's pretty simple.

    >
    > I am not sure where this is going, but I and most other people here,
    > have whole brains.


    But many choose not to use them, for some unknown reason.



    Brian

    --
    If televison's a babysitter, the Internet is a drunk librarian who
    won't shut up.
    -- Dorothy Gambrell (http://catandgirl.com)

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