On Sat, 27 Dec 2008 08:12:00 -0800 (PST), Cole Kutz
<[email protected]> wrote:
>One would think that there has to be enough intelligence and non-pack
>mentality to recognise that churlish details regarding Christy can be
>read by thousands, and not just able to be read by *select* members of
Hand me a hankie. <sniffle>
>In regard to this matter I would rather not call this group
>insensitive & selfish. Instead I would preferably chose to consider
>that members of this group are somewhat ignorant by not recognising
>that some people do not want reminding of what they went through when
>they lost a loved one in a similar way as Christy.
People do what they need to do to get through it. I've noticed that
no regular rfc poster who has actually been through the death of a
spouse or child has spoken against this practice. It's only people
like you, Peter's stalkers, who post complaints.
>Clearly Allen was not thinking straight when he agreed to allow Peter
>Lucas to publish full details.
I'm glad he did. Peter could have published a daily link to
CaringBridge (just like the candle site is published daily) but we
often get his messages here before CaringBridge is updated. Anyone
*normal* who doesn't want to read about Christy knows they can either
skip the thread or filter the header which is easy to do - unlike
staying away from the likes of you who morph and return.
>But to my mind it takes someone in this group to step up to the plate
>and suggest ways to shied this innocent victim from people who are
>only interested in the macabre.
You're despicable and vile. If you were *that* sensitive to the
situation... you wouldn't be here in the first place.
Just in case you haven't figured it out, I'll spell it out for you.
Your juvenal antics have done two things:
1. You've managed to turn someone many people here find abrasive
enough to permanently filter (without any help from you, asshole) into
a tragic hero.
2. You've also managed to show *you're* so focused on stalking that
you can't even let someone go through the real life death of his wife
(who is well loved here) without turning it into a stalker's
I never worry about diets. The only carrots that
interest me are the number of carats in a diamond.